#240: Why Summer Is the Best Time to Train Your Athlete’s Mental Game—And How to Start Now

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Picture this: Your athlete walks into her next season unshaken by mistakes, laser-focused under pressure, and radiating confidence.

No more spiraling after a bad play, no more crumbling under stress, no more repeating last season’s struggles. That transformation doesn’t happen by accident and it doesn’t happen during the season. It starts right now, in the offseason.

Here’s why summer is the secret weapon for building a rock-solid mental game… and how to get started.

Summer Is a Mental Game Goldmine

Most athletes (and parents) treat summer as a time to grind physically – camps, drills, weights. But here’s the truth: Summer is the ultimate time to train the mental skills that separate good athletes from unstoppable competitors.

For example, Sarah, a mom in our community, put her daughter through mental training last summer. At the time, she wasn’t sure if it would make a difference. But when the season rolled around, she saw huge improvements in how her daughter handled challenges. “Things that would’ve wrecked her last year are now just a blip,” she told us. That’s the power of training the mental game before the season starts.

Still in doubt? After working with numerous athletes, here’s why summer beats the season for mental growth every time:

1. More Time + Flexibility = Less Stress

One of the biggest challenges during the season is finding time. Between practices, school, and everything else, mental training often takes a backseat. Summer changes that. With fewer structured commitments, your daughter has time to work on her mindset.

The Elite Mental Game program, for example, only requires about 30 minutes a week. That’s it. A small time investment that pays off in a big way once the season starts. Plus, without school schedules dictating every move, you have more freedom to fit mental training in without feeling like it’s another overwhelming task.

2. Less Pressure, More Growth

During the season, there’s so much at stake; games, championships, team expectations. It’s tough to work on mental skills when every moment feels like a high-pressure situation. Summer, on the other hand, is low-stakes. It’s the perfect time to practice mental strategies in a relaxed environment, so they become second nature when the pressure is on.

Your daughter can learn a skill like the “snapback routine” and immediately apply it during summer league games, camps, or even informal scrimmages. She gets to experiment and refine her mindset without the fear of failing in a crucial game. By the time the season starts, she’s already mentally strong.

3. Crush the “Summer Slump”

Let’s be real: summer can sometimes lead to a lack of structure. If your athlete isn’t in a full-time training program, she might struggle with motivation. That’s when parents start feeling frustrated because they know she should be doing ball control drills, working out, or staying active, but she’s just not.

Mental training helps with this in two key ways:

✅ Building Self-Motivation. Instead of waiting for coaches to tell her what to do, she learns how to create her own structure. This independence will serve her well during the season and beyond.

✅ Creating a Plan. In our program, athletes set off-season goals, outline their workouts, and build a schedule. They print out their training plan and take ownership of it. No more nagging from you; they’re in control of their own progress.

4. Stack Skills Now, Dominate Later

If your athlete waits until the season to fix her mindset, it’s too late. Pressure, mistakes, and tough coaching will happen again. But if she learns tools like positive self-talk, visualization, or a “snapback routine” (for quick comebacks after errors) now, she’ll walk into the season ready. These skills stick; like muscle memory for the brain.

Imagine your daughter stepping onto the field or court next season, not just physically prepared but mentally unshakable. She’s no longer getting thrown off by mistakes, self-doubt, or pressure. Instead, she’s playing her best because she’s trained for these moments.

This isn’t just about sports, it’s about life. The mental skills she builds now will help her in school, relationships, and any challenge she faces in the future.

How to Train Mental Skills This Summer

Mental training isn’t complicated, but it needs a plan. Here’s how it works in programs like EMG:

Phase 1: Master the Comeback

Athletes learn the snapback routine – a step-by-step method to reset after mistakes. No more dwelling on errors. They practice it in low-pressure summer games, so it’s automatic by season.

Phase 2: Build the Foundation

This is where athletes tackle self-talk, daily mindset routines, and visualization. Simple habits like a 5-minute visualization session or flipping negative thoughts (“I’m terrible at this”“I’m getting stronger”) become second nature.

Phase 3: Create a Game Plan

Pre-game routines, post-game reflection, even the “alter ego” technique (acting like their most confident self) get locked in. Athletes use summer tournaments to test-drive these strategies.

Phase 4: Tackle Hidden Challenges

Perfectionism, comparison, leadership jitters – summer is the time to fix these. For example, if she’s scared to lead, she practices speaking up in summer practices first.

Phase 5: Make It Stick

Habits take 21 days. With no season pressure, athletes can focus on turning skills (like positive self-talk) into autopilot reactions.

Ready to Level Up?

Summer is short. If you want your athlete to gain the mental edge before her next season, now is the time to act. Mental training doesn’t take hours of daily effort. A few minutes a week can be the difference between entering the season strong or struggling through the same issues as last year.

If you’re ready to give your athlete the tools to succeed, check out our Elite Mental Game program. It’s designed to fit seamlessly into her summer schedule while delivering real results. Let’s make sure this season is different – stronger, more confident, and ready for anything.

P.S. Want a shortcut? We’re offering 50% off Elite Mental Game (our proven, self-paced program). Use the link to grab the discount. Your athlete gets lifetime access to trainings, and you get a roadmap to support her.

Episode Highlights: 

[00:00:00] Introduction to Off-Season Mental Training. Summer is the optimal time for athletes to develop mental skills before the next season begins. Starting mental training now helps athletes enter their next season confident and unburdened by previous struggles.

[00:00:38] Why Summer is Ideal for Mental Training. The off-season provides athletes with a competitive advantage by allowing mental resilience development without competitive pressures. Summer’s flexible schedule creates perfect conditions for consistent mental practice.

[00:02:19] Success Story: Real Impact of Mental Training. A testimonial demonstrates how off-season mental training transformed an athlete’s ability to handle setbacks. What were once devastating mistakes became minor, manageable challenges.

[00:03:21] Four Key Benefits of Summer Mental Training. Summer offers schedule flexibility, low-pressure experimentation, motivation maintenance, and proactive skill-building. These advantages create ideal conditions for lasting mental game improvement.

[00:08:24] The Importance of Proactive Training. Addressing mental weaknesses mid-season often proves ineffective. Off-season preparation ensures athletes enter competition ready for pressure, mistakes, and coaching demands.

[00:10:38] Program Breakdown: Elite Mental Game. The EMG program features bite-sized videos, practical exercises, and off-season planning. Athletes develop recovery skills, confidence techniques, and pre-season routines.

[00:13:31] Special Offer for Listeners. A limited 50% discount is available exclusively for podcast listeners. This summer-specific opportunity makes mental training investment particularly timely.

[00:16:37] Parent Resources and Support. Additional materials help parents effectively support their athlete’s development. The program includes communication guidance and community access.

[00:17:27] Closing Thoughts on Summer Preparation. Summer mental training converts downtime into competitive advantage. Early starters gain skills to surpass previous limitations in the coming season.

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