“Ugh, I can’t do this!”

“I always mess up in big moments.”

“She’s so much better than me.”

If you’ve ever heard your daughter say something like this, you’re not alone. As a sports mom, you see her talent and potential, but you also know that the mental side of the game matters just as much as her skills. The challenge? Bringing up mindset training without her shutting down or feeling like you’re criticizing her.

Have you ever wondered what it takes to become a mental performance coach? Maybe you’ve thought, “I love what Coach Bre is doing. How did she get started?” Or perhaps you’re a coach, a parent, or just someone who’s passionate about helping athletes build confidence and mental toughness. If any of that sounds like you, you’re in the right place.

“I’m doing everything I can. I show up early, stay late, put in the extra reps. But, no matter how hard I work, it feels like I’m being overlooked. Maybe my coach favors other players. Maybe I just don’t fit into their game plan. Whatever the reason, it’s frustrating, and honestly, it’s starting to wear me down.”

Does this sound like your daughter? She’s just getting back on her feet after an injury, but something’s holding her back. Her body is ready, but her mind is playing tricks – nervousness, hesitation, and fear of reinjury. If this feels familiar, you’re not alone. Injuries are tough, but they’re not just a physical battle; they’re a mental and emotional one too.

They’re fiery, fiercely independent, and sometimes downright defiant. But here’s the secret: your strong-willed athlete might just be a future world-changer. The question is, how do you survive the journey?

As a sports parent, you’ve probably wondered what you can do to keep your child motivated and engaged in sports without pushing too hard. The journey of raising an athlete is full of highs and lows, and finding that balance can feel like an Olympic feat. I had the chance to unpack this complex dynamic with Asia Mape, founder of I Love to Watch You Play, in a recent episode of the Raising Elite Competitors Podcast. Asia’s insights as a three-time Emmy-winning sports journalist, former Division I athlete, and mom of three daughters (two of whom are Division I athletes) bring a wealth of wisdom to the world of sports parenting.

Does this sound like you? You’re grinding at practice, showing up for every workout, and giving it your all. You’re serious about your sport, but now you’re starting to realize something: everyone else is, too. The higher you go, the more you see that every athlete is putting in the work. So, how do you stand out? How do you separate yourself from the pack when the competition is just as dedicated?

Let’s be real: being a sports mom is hard. You’re navigating tournaments, practices, teenage mood swings, and figuring out how to support your daughter through the highs and lows of her athletic journey. And when it comes to her confidence and mental game? That’s a whole different beast.