#268: College Recruiting Made Easy: How to Help Your Athlete Get Noticed (Without Spending Thousands)

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College Recruiting Made Easy: How Your Athlete Can Get Noticed Without Draining Your Time, Energy, or Wallet 

If your daughter has ever looked at you after a big game and confidently (or nervously) said, “I want to play in college,” you’ve probably felt two things at once:

  1. Pride
  2. Panic

Because supporting her dream is important to you.

But trying to figure out how to help her reach it? That’s where things get messy.

Maybe you’ve Googled.

Maybe you’ve heard other parents talk about expensive recruiting services.

Maybe you’ve already spent hours searching for college coaches’ emails, only to end up overwhelmed and more confused than when you started.

Good news.

You don’t need to have the roadmap memorized.

You just need the right guidance and a process designed for busy moms and busy girl athletes.

This week, Coach Bre sat down with David Hitz, COO of Athlete Narrative, longtime mental performance coach, and a leader who is reshaping how modern athletes navigate recruiting. You can connect with David on Instagram at @athletenarrative and @theneuropro, or reach him directly at david@athletenarrative.com. His insight brings clarity to a process that often feels like a maze.

Why College Recruiting Feels So Overwhelming

Here’s something most moms don’t hear enough:

👉 Unless your daughter is a five-star, top-of-the-nation athlete, college coaches will NOT “just find her.”

And honestly? That’s not a bad thing.

It means:

  • Your daughter has more control than she realizes.
  • The path is clearer than people make it sound.
  • She doesn’t need to spend thousands of dollars or hundreds of hours to get seen.

Inside the episode, David breaks down recruiting in a way that finally makes sense. If you’ve ever felt stuck, confused, or unsure about when your daughter should start… you’re about to feel a whole lot lighter.

💡 Here’s what you’ll learn inside the episode:

  • The real reason most athletes never hear back from coaches.
  • Why coaches prefer personal emails (not giant recruiting databases).
  • The truth about the transfer portal and why D1 is no longer the “only” dream.
  • The biggest mistake parents make when they start the recruiting process.
  • How to help your daughter stay in the driver’s seat without adding more to your plate.

And the hidden gem…

💡There is now a way for your daughter to send 100+ personalized coach emails in under an hour.

No stress.

No templates.

No paid middleman standing between her and her dream school.

This is recruiting made modern. Finally.

Why Most Recruiting Services Don’t Work for Today’s Athletes

If you’ve ever considered signing up for a big-name recruiting platform, you’re not alone.

And you’ve probably noticed:

  • High fees
  • Complicated dashboards
  • Hidden upsells
  • Coaches who rarely (if ever) log in to those systems

Here’s the honest truth David shares:

Most of these platforms look impressive… but they don’t actually help the majority of athletes get seen.

College coaches want something simple:

  • A real email
  • From a real athlete
  • Who has done their homework
  • And genuinely wants to play for their school

That’s it.

No complicated portals.

No template paragraphs.

No thousands of dollars invested before your daughter even starts.

Which is why Athlete Narrative flipped the whole process upside down.

A Simple, Athlete-Led Way to Get Noticed

Imagine this:

✨ Your daughter opens an app and fills out her “Radar Page” — a simple, clean place for her video, stats, personality, and goals.

✨ She chooses a division and the states she’s interested in.

✨ She taps on schools that match her interests.

✨ With one more tap, personalized emails pop into her personal inbox (not a platform) ready to send.

Every message is tailored.

Every coach email is up-to-date.

Every school on her list is real and reachable.

She can send dozens in minutes—not weeks.

Tracking shows her when coaches open her links. She can adjust, add schools, or follow up, all through her normal email so she’s building real communication skills and real confidence.

This is exactly why Coach Bre partnered with Athlete Narrative. It aligns perfectly with our mission: confidence, clarity, control.

What This Means for You (The Busy Mom Who’s Doing Her Best)

Let’s be honest. You’re already juggling:

  • School schedules
  • Practices
  • Carpool
  • Games
  • Laundry
  • Homework check-ins
  • Teen emotions
  • And your own life

The last thing you need is one more role… especially “full-time recruiting coordinator.”

With the right tools:

  • Your daughter leads.
  • You support.
  • Coaches respond directly to her.
  • You stay informed without doing the heavy lifting.

And best of all, there’s no massive bill attached.

The Part Moms Love Most: It’s Affordable

Most recruiting programs start at hundreds or thousands of dollars.

This one?

👉 $15 a month for our Elite Competitor community (normally $20).

Use this link to download The Recruiter App for the exclusive pricing through November 30th:

Download The Recruiter App

No contracts. No lock-ins. No “premium upgrades.”

Just access, visibility, and confidence.

Real Athletes. Real Results. Real Hope.

Inside the episode, David shares story after story of athletes who went from:

❌ zero interest
❌ no direction
❌ feeling discouraged

to…

✅ multiple coaches reaching out
✅ camp invitations
✅ real conversations
✅ actual offers

One athlete sent 120 emails in an hour and had 10 responses within weeks.
Another sent 350 and committed to a school recommended by a coach he reached out to.

Exposure works.

And with a system that makes exposure easy, your daughter’s opportunities multiply fast.

Ready to Make Recruiting Simple and Stress-Free?

Here’s your moment to take something overwhelming and make it doable.

👇 Next Steps

Use our exclusive link to access Athlete Narrative for $15/month through the end of November.

Give your daughter:

  • A simple way to reach coaches
  • A chance to take ownership
  • Tools that build confidence instead of anxiety
  • A realistic path to the next level

You don’t have to know the whole recruiting world.

You just need a process that works.

You’ve got her.

We’ve got you.

And now she has everything she needs to shine.

Episode Highlights: 

[00:00:18] Not sure if your daughter is too young to think about college recruiting? Coach Bre explains why understanding the process early builds calm confidence instead of confusion.

[00:00:44] The big recruiting myth exposed. David explains why “If she is good enough, coaches will find her” is simply not true for most athletes.

[00:01:10] Meet David Hitz, COO of Athlete Narrative and longtime mental performance coach. 

[00:01:53] Coach Bre reveals why traditional recruiting platforms are complicated, expensive, and often ineffective. 

[00:03:20] Where your daughter should actually start with recruiting. Hint: It is not creating a profile and hoping for the best.

[00:04:14] Why the “Field of Dreams approach” does not work unless your daughter is a five-star standout. 

[00:05:33] The first mistake almost every family makes. David explains how Googling for help leads parents straight into pricey programs that rarely deliver.

[00:08:29] How much should parents help and how much should athletes handle? David shares a balanced approach that keeps your daughter in the driver’s seat.

[00:09:42] Why Athlete Narrative designed the app to be simple enough for busy teens.

[00:11:00] Full walkthrough of the recruiting app. How the Radar Page works and how “Hope,” their AI, helps athletes send personalized emails fast.

[00:13:09] The hidden risk of bulk emailing coaches through big platforms. David explains how it can damage credibility and trigger spam filters.

[00:19:00] Real success story. One athlete went from zero interest to multiple offers within a few months.

[00:21:47] When athletes should start using the app. What freshmen, sophomores and juniors need to know.

[00:24:10] Why Athlete Narrative refuses to trap families in a platform. You keep all your coach emails even if you cancel.

[00:25:20] The price every parent wants to know. David explains the surprisingly affordable monthly cost.

[00:26:05] Why The Elite Competitor partnered with Athlete Narrative. Shared mission, shared values, and the same desire to protect girls confidence.

[00:29:33] Another athlete success story. More than 350 emails sent and a commitment to Biola University.

[00:30:52] Final details and access to the Elite Competitor community discount before the price increases.

Next Steps:

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