5 Signs Your Athlete Struggles with Perfectionism (And How You Can Support Her)
Does it feel like nothing your daughter does is ever good enough? She might win a game, achieve a personal best, or master a new skill, and still criticize herself đ. Watching her struggle can be heartbreaking, especially when her self-worth seems tied to every mistake or outcome.
How do you know if your athlete is ready for mental training? And maybe even more important, whenâs the best time to start?
Itâs that time again: tryout season. The week when moms probably lose more sleep than their athletes do. And honestly? It makes sense. Tryouts are stressful for everyone: athletes, coaches, and yes, parents too.
Hey athletes! Letâs talk about something weâve all dealt with: that awful spiral of negative thoughts. You know the one. It starts with âWhat if I mess up?â and suddenly, your brainâs racing with worst-case scenarios. Youâre stuck in your head, doubting yourself, and it feels impossible to shake it off. Sound familiar?
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âIs mental training for my young athlete really worth it?â
Maybe your daughterâs been struggling with confidence, stress, or just not enjoying her sport like she used to. Youâve tried pep talks, advice, maybe even therapy but nothing seems to stick. Sometimes it even feels like it makes things worse. Sound familiar?
Ever feel like the second you bring up mental training, your daughter shuts down? You start to say something and she already knows where youâre going, so she tunes out or rolls her eyes. Youâre not trying to make her feel like somethingâs wrong, but you do want her to realize how much working on her mindset could help her game.
How do you know if your athlete is ready for mental training? And maybe even more important, whenâs the best time to start?
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What do you do when your coach says you look scared on the court?
How do you handle a teammate who constantly brings negative energy?
Or when you come back from an injury and feel like everyone has left you behind?
These arenât just your problems. Theyâre the exact, real-life questions girl athletes are asking behind closed doors. And today, Iâm swinging those doors wide open.
Iâm giving you a secret peek inside one of our private group coaching calls, where athletes get real, unfiltered advice on the stuff that actually keeps them up at night. No scripts, no fluff; just the raw conversations and actionable tips that help players navigate the toughest parts of their sport.
This is the stuff we usually only share with our inner circle. Keep reading to see how we handle it.
Tryouts can feel like a lot. Your heartâs racing, your palms are sweaty, and suddenly it feels like everythingâs riding on this one moment. But hereâs the truth: tryouts arenât about becoming someone new. Theyâre your chance to show off the work youâve already put in. Thatâs it. And that mindset shift? It changes everything.
Letâs talk about summer: not the relaxing-by-the-pool kind, but the kind where youâre showing up, putting in the work, and getting noticed.
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5 Signs Your Athlete Struggles with Perfectionism (And How You Can Support Her)
Does it feel like nothing your daughter does is ever good enough? She might win a game, achieve a personal best, or master a new skill, and still criticize herself đ. Watching her struggle can be heartbreaking, especially when her self-worth seems tied to every mistake or outcome.
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âIs mental training for my young athlete really worth it?â
Maybe your daughterâs been struggling with confidence, stress, or just not enjoying her sport like she used to. Youâve tried pep talks, advice, maybe even therapy but nothing seems to stick. Sometimes it even feels like it makes things worse. Sound familiar?
If youâre a parent of a middle school or high school athlete, you know that thinking about college can feel overwhelming. Thereâs the recruitment process, the applications, the scholarships, and the nagging question: how do we make this happen without drowning in debt?
Ever feel like the second you bring up mental training, your daughter shuts down? You start to say something and she already knows where youâre going, so she tunes out or rolls her eyes. Youâre not trying to make her feel like somethingâs wrong, but you do want her to realize how much working on her mindset could help her game.
How do you know if your athlete is ready for mental training? And maybe even more important, whenâs the best time to start?
What do you do when your coach says you look scared on the court?
How do you handle a teammate who constantly brings negative energy?
Or when you come back from an injury and feel like everyone has left you behind?
These arenât just your problems. Theyâre the exact, real-life questions girl athletes are asking behind closed doors. And today, Iâm swinging those doors wide open.
Iâm giving you a secret peek inside one of our private group coaching calls, where athletes get real, unfiltered advice on the stuff that actually keeps them up at night. No scripts, no fluff; just the raw conversations and actionable tips that help players navigate the toughest parts of their sport.
This is the stuff we usually only share with our inner circle. Keep reading to see how we handle it.