“I’m doing everything I can. I show up early, stay late, put in the extra reps. But, no matter how hard I work, it feels like I’m being overlooked. Maybe my coach favors other players. Maybe I just don’t fit into their game plan. Whatever the reason, it’s frustrating, and honestly, it’s starting to wear me down.”
Does this sound like you? You’re grinding at practice, showing up for every workout, and giving it your all. You’re serious about your sport, but now you’re starting to realize something: everyone else is, too. The higher you go, the more you see that every athlete is putting in the work. So, how do you stand out? How do you separate yourself from the pack when the competition is just as dedicated?
Do you ever find yourself standing on the sidelines before a game, wondering, “Am I even ready for this?”
If that’s you, don’t worry – you’re not alone. Almost every athlete has felt that wave of uncertainty before competing. But here’s the thing – not feeling ready doesn’t mean you can’t rise to the occasion. Today, let’s challenge that head-on. I’ll walk you through practical tips to help you shake off the doubt and step into competition with confidence and focus.
Are you holding yourself back without even realizing it? If you’ve ever played a game thinking, “I just don’t want to mess up,” you might be stuck in a mindset that limits your potential. There’s a huge difference between playing to win and playing not to lose – and that difference could be what’s keeping you from reaching your full athletic potential!
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EPISODE 113 | MAY 27 2022
The Recovery Habits That Prevent Burnout and Injury 💤💪
What Every Sports Mom Needs to Know
If your daughter is training hard, showing up consistently, and still feeling exhausted, frustrated, or injured, it’s probably not a motivation problem.
👉 It’s a recovery problem.
In this episode of the Raising Elite Competitors Podcast, Coach Bre sits down with Kelsey Lensman (@xpandyourlimit), founder of Xpand Your Limits and a mobility and recovery expert inside Dream Team, to break down what recovery really means for girl athletes and how it directly impacts confidence, performance, and long-term health.
Here’s what every sports mom should know.
If your daughter is an athlete, you’ve probably seen it: the self-doubt, the negative self-talk, the spiral after one tiny mistake. She beats herself up, focuses on the bad, and lets her confidence crumble before she even steps onto the field or court. Sound familiar? Here’s the hard truth: if she doesn’t learn how to handle these mental battles, she’ll never reach her full potential.
From Rock Bottom to Varsity: How Kate Rebuilt Her Confidence and Fell Back in Love With Her Sport
New here? Listen to these episodes first to learn actionable tips you can implement today.
Unlocking Potential: Ella’s Path to Becoming a Champion Swimmer
Every athlete has a unique journey, but few embody resilience and dedication like Ella Wiley, our November Athlete of the Month. As a sophomore on her high school swim team, Ella’s story is not only about her impressive achievements but also about the mindset and pre-competition routines that drive her success.
When Your Athlete Spirals Mid Game: How to Help Her Rewire Her Brain for Confidence
The Moment Every Sports Mom Recognizes 💔
How to Help Your Athlete Thrive Under Pressure (Not Crumble!)
Pressure. Every athlete feels it—the butterflies before the big game, the sweaty palms before the free throw, that moment when everything’s on the line.
tips specifically for our athletes!
The Recovery Habits That Prevent Burnout and Injury 💤💪
What Every Sports Mom Needs to Know
If your daughter is training hard, showing up consistently, and still feeling exhausted, frustrated, or injured, it’s probably not a motivation problem.
👉 It’s a recovery problem.
In this episode of the Raising Elite Competitors Podcast, Coach Bre sits down with Kelsey Lensman (@xpandyourlimit), founder of Xpand Your Limits and a mobility and recovery expert inside Dream Team, to break down what recovery really means for girl athletes and how it directly impacts confidence, performance, and long-term health.
Here’s what every sports mom should know.
Unlocking Potential: Ella’s Path to Becoming a Champion Swimmer
Every athlete has a unique journey, but few embody resilience and dedication like Ella Wiley, our November Athlete of the Month. As a sophomore on her high school swim team, Ella’s story is not only about her impressive achievements but also about the mindset and pre-competition routines that drive her success.
Have you ever watched your daughter doubt herself right before a big game? Or wondered if the words you say are helping or hurting her confidence? If you’ve been there – grappling with how to support her without overstepping – you’re not alone. Here, we get into practical ways to give your athlete the confidence boost she needs, exactly when she needs it most. Whether it’s a tough practice, pre-game jitters, or post-game reflections, the right words can make all the difference.
If your daughter is an athlete, you’ve probably seen it: the self-doubt, the negative self-talk, the spiral after one tiny mistake. She beats herself up, focuses on the bad, and lets her confidence crumble before she even steps onto the field or court. Sound familiar? Here’s the hard truth: if she doesn’t learn how to handle these mental battles, she’ll never reach her full potential.
When Your Athlete Spirals Mid Game: How to Help Her Rewire Her Brain for Confidence
The Moment Every Sports Mom Recognizes 💔
From Rock Bottom to Varsity: How Kate Rebuilt Her Confidence and Fell Back in Love With Her Sport
What One Soccer Mom Got Wrong After Games… and the Simple Shift That Changed Everything
If post-game car rides feel tense, emotional, or unpredictable, you are not alone.
If you’ve ever sat behind the wheel after a game thinking, “I want to help her… but everything I say seems to make it worse,” this story will speak directly to you.
College Recruiting Made Easy: How Your Athlete Can Get Noticed Without Draining Your Time, Energy, or Wallet If your daughter has ever looked at you after a big game and confidently (or nervously) said, “I want to play in college,” you’ve probably felt two things at once: Because supporting her dream is important to you. […]