#213: Intentional Parenting in Athletics & Beyond w/ executive Life Coach & Mom Crystal Obey

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Are you tired of watching your daughter struggle with confidence in her sport?

Does it break your heart to see her overwhelmed by pressure or anxiety before a big game? If you’re nodding along, you’re not alone. Many mothers share these concerns, especially as their daughters navigate the competitive world of sports. But here’s the good news: you have the power to make a difference!

Why Sports Psychology Matters

Did you know that mental performance accounts for 90% of success in sports? It’s true! The ability to maintain focus, manage stress, and develop resilience is crucial for athletes. This episode shines a light on sports psychology, a field dedicated to helping athletes excel not just physically, but mentally too.

Imagine your daughter stepping onto the field or court, radiating confidence and composure. That’s the impact of understanding and implementing sports psychology techniques! This isn’t just about winning; it’s about fostering a love for the game, boosting self-esteem, and nurturing a growth mindset.

Supporting Your Daughter: The Role of Moms

As busy moms, you may feel you have a million responsibilities on your plate. But your involvement can significantly influence your daughter’s mental approach to sports. Here are some actionable ways you can support her:

  • Encourage Open Communication: Create a safe space for her to express her feelings about sports. Whether she’s excited or anxious, listening to her can make a huge difference.
  • Promote Positive Self-Talk: Help her identify and challenge negative thoughts. For example, instead of saying, “I can’t do this,” encourage her to say, “I can learn from this experience.”
  • Be Her Biggest Cheerleader: Celebrate her efforts, not just the outcomes. This reinforces her love for the game and builds resilience.

Fostering Confidence: A Key Ingredient

Confidence is the cornerstone of a successful athlete. Yet, many young athletes struggle with self-doubt. Here are some practical strategies to help your daughter build her confidence:

  • Set Achievable Goals: Encourage her to set small, attainable goals that lead to her larger aspirations. This will help her see progress and stay motivated.
  • Visualization Techniques: Teach her to visualize success before competitions. Imagining herself succeeding can boost her confidence and reduce anxiety.
  • Embrace Mistakes: Reinforce the idea that mistakes are part of growth. Help her analyze what went wrong, learn from it, and move on.

Handling Pressure Like a Pro

Competition can be intense, and pressure often mounts. Here are some effective strategies for managing it:

  • Mindfulness Practices: Encourage her to practice mindfulness or meditation to center her thoughts. This helps reduce anxiety and enhances focus.
  • Breathing Techniques: Simple breathing exercises can be a game-changer. Teach her to take deep breaths before a performance to calm her nerves.
  • Develop a Routine: A pre-game routine can provide a sense of control and normalcy. Whether it’s listening to music or stretching, find what works for her.

Final Thoughts: Empower Your Athlete

As a mom, you have the unique ability to empower your daughter in her athletic journey. By integrating sports psychology principles, you can help her develop not just as an athlete, but as a confident young woman ready to face any challenge.

Your daughter can unlock her full potential by embracing the mental aspect of her sport. Start today! Discuss these strategies with her and explore how you can implement them together.

Episode Highlights: 

[00:00:47] Meet Crystal Obie, executive life coach, co-founder of Life in Launches, and homeschooling mom of five, who shares her tips on intentional parenting.

[00:01:30] Discover how Crystal balances homeschooling, parenting, and running a business with her husband.

[00:03:35] Learn about Crystal’s philosophy of equipping intentional parents to educate exceptional children.

[00:04:00] Tips on being intentional with your time and making every moment count with your kids.

[00:05:45] How parents of athletes can stay intentional amidst hectic sports schedules.

[00:09:15] Practical advice on turning drive time into quality time with your child.

[00:10:45] Managing screen time: Crystal’s strategies for modelling healthy phone use.

[00:14:00] How to help your kids be intentional about the content they consume online.

[25:00] Quick exercises to enhance focus and confidence.

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