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You’re not sure what to say, so you either don’t say anything or say something that doesn't seem to help at all. Telling her to "be positive" isn't working. Seems like a constant lose-lose situation.
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What you say to her is causing MORE pressure (when you’re just trying to get her to calm down before she plays!). You have the best of intentions, but telling her to “just be confident” “relax” or “get out of your head” seems to be making things worse.
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Your words are causing her to get mad and shut down (even though you’re trying to help!) “Mom, you don’t understand” is a common response. You’re just trying to get her to see a different perspective, but in reality it’s making things worse. Cue the silence on the way home from a game…
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There are 3 main hurdles holding you back from helping your daughter…
(that doesn't cause her to shut down or accidentally make things worse)
the only problem is - what do you actually SAY to her to get this to happen?!
And no matter what you say to her, she doesn’t want to hear it from you (because “you’re my mom, you have to say that!”).
Sound familiar?
YOU to be frustrated (and sad) watching, knowing she could play so much better if she believed in herself like you believe in her
HER to play below her potential, overthink it out there, and show up with a lack of confidence
It doesn’t matter how much you believe in her.
If you aren’t saying the right things (at the right time), your words could unintentionally be making things harder for her.
And that’s why she needs YOU to know the words to say to build her confidence day to day, pre-game, and post-game.
By the end of our time together, you’ll have your “what to say” game plan locked in and ready to go, so you can finally stop being at a loss for words and start knowing exactly how to talk to her without causing her to shut down.
Even if you can’t talk to your athlete as she’s competing, you’re still communicating with her through your body language! We’ll talk about how you can support your athlete to keep her in the zone.
And…the (often dreaded) car ride home. Win or lose, you’ll be armed with proven scripts to help her process her performance (even when she’s beating herself up and only remembering what went wrong.)
Raise your hand if your athlete gets irritable before a game - where no matter what you say it’s the wrong thing. Not any more! You’ll learn the tried and true pre-competition phrases that actually work to build her confidence (you’ll ditch the “just relax” and “just be confident” for good!)
Building confidence in your athlete is a two part journey: what YOU say + and HER mental game.
In this training, you’ll learn how you can ensure she has strategies to strengthen her mental game and show up with confidence on game day!
(things like handling pre-competition nerves and pressure, bouncing back from mistakes, flipping her post game negative self-talk, and how to thrive even when her coach is terrible)
This is the MOST important area to build your athlete’s confidence - it’s actually where she spends the most time. You’ll learn exactly how YOU can be planting seeds just by shifting your language to boost her confidence before she even steps on the court.
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Think of this as your go-to guide when you’re looking for a “what to say in this scenario” script. We cover it all in this cheat sheet so you never have to be left wondering what to say again!
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We also have the training replays accessible via a podcast feed, which makes it really easy to listen afterwards on the go!
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You have access to the trainings for a few more days following the Challenge. So, plenty of time to participate in the Challenge, do the work, and catch anything you miss or want to revisit.
100% yes. However, I get this question!
How you respond to your athlete, what words you fill her environment with, and what you say to her before and after she competes has a substantial impact on her.
Your words become her inner voice! Powerful.
One of the greatest things you can do for her confidence is to ensure that what you’re saying is helping, not unintentionally hurting her.
Here’s the truth: nothing changes if nothing changes.
If you’re tired of trying to get your athlete to believe in herself…
If you’ve ever thought “if only she would actually listen to what I'm saying…”
If you know that you need to find a different way to get through to her…
Then real talk? Your athlete is getting passed up by others who DO have parents saying the right things (at the right times).
Because “winging it” and hoping something will eventually stick is a surefire way to keep her stuck and struggling.
Let's be game changers together!
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